Dominant Women's Page

Are you already identified as a Dominant Woman? Do you have a husband or partner who has confessed some unusual sexual fantasies to you and you want to learn more? Have you had persistant fantasies about being in control in the bedroom but are not quite sure how to proceed? Are you tired of kinky personals sites where you recieve photos of naked body parts and requests for kinky sex acts instead of sincere letters of introduction?

If so, this might be the place for you. ClubFEM-ABQ provides a safe and accepting place where Dominant Women and submissive men can meet, talk, share information and hopefully, connect in ways that bring both parties what they desire.

This lifestyle is different from other kinky lifestyles in that is is a complete role-reversal from what is commonly accepted as "normal" in our culture. Submissive men, particularly, may experience some reservations about publicly displaying their submissiveness in front of other men who are not submissive to Women. It takes great courage on both sides for us to openly embrace this relationship dynamic.

One of the goals of ClubFEM-ABQ is to teach submissive men to be the kind of subs we seek but seldom find. Having the desire to serve a Dominant Woman does not necessarily mean that sub will actually know what that looks like. By attending our events and being in our presence, submissive gentlemen can get to know us as people and learn how we wish to be served by them.

For Novice Dominants, we can offer mentoring and an opportunity to meet experienced submissive gentlemen who may be willing to offer their services as a practice dummy for you to learn on. That is always fun for all concerned. For the more experienced Dominants, we can offer a way to socialize with other like-minded adults and meet sincere submissive gentlemen who live in this area. Believe me, Ladies - they are out there. Just because some submissive gentlemen do not show up for the Pan Sexual events, don't think they do not exist. My growing mailing list is proof of their existance.